Etiquette
Booking & Communication
Read First, Ask Second
My website contains information about my availability, rates, booking requirements, and boundaries. Please familiarize yourself with those details before reaching out. I am always happy to answer thoughtful questions, but I appreciate not being asked to repeat information that is already readily available.
Use The Booking Form
All booking inquiries should begin with the booking form on my website. It gives me the information I need to review your inquiry thoughtfully and determine whether we're a good fit. Please take a moment to complete the form thoroughly. The more useful information you provide—your preferred dates, location, length of booking, and what you're hoping to arrange—the easier it is for me to respond meaningfully.
If the Form Isn't Working
Technology occasionally decides it has other plans. If you're having trouble accessing or submitting the booking form, please email me at angelamour@protonmail.com and let me know that you're experiencing an issue with the form. I'll help you from there.
Please don't use email as an alternative to the booking form unless the form is genuinely unavailable.
Actions Speak Louder
Words are lovely. Follow-through is lovelier. I often receive enthusiastic inquiries from men who tell me how much they'd love to meet, how perfectly we're suited, or how seriously they're considering a booking—only to disappear when it comes time to actually make arrangements.
Please understand that I don't measure interest by declarations. I measure it by action. If you tell me you'd like to book, I'm happy to help you make it happen. If you're still deciding, that's perfectly fine too… just say so. What I appreciate most is clear communication and following through on what you've said you'll do.
If you mean it, make it happen.
Arriving to See Me
Arrive On Time
Please plan your journey accordingly and allow enough time for traffic, parking, finding the hotel, checking in, or any other logistical considerations. Your appointment begins at the agreed-upon time—not when you arrive. If you anticipate being late, communicate as soon as possible.
Come Fresh
Please arrive clean, showered, and generally well groomed. Fresh breath is especially appreciated. If you've been traveling, working, or enjoying a long day before seeing me, a quick shower and a little grooming can make all the difference. Good hygiene is one of the simplest ways to show consideration for your companion. Please pay particular attention to bathing, oral hygiene, clean clothing, and intimate grooming as appropriate to you.
For a more comprehensive overview of preparing for an appointment, I recommend reading the Tryst Client Guide hygiene article before your first visit. Think of it as basic hospitality: I’ll make an effort to be lovely to encounter, and I appreciate the same in return.
During Our Time Together
Presence Is Sexy
Once we're together, be present. Put the phone away unless we have a reason to use it. Let yourself settle into the moment rather than worrying about the outside world. I'm much more interested in sharing an experience with you than watching you check your notifications.
Treat Me Like a Person, Not a Performance
I'm an experienced professional, but I'm also a human with my own personality, preferences, boundaries, sense of humor, and curiosity. Talk to me. Ask questions. Tell me stories. Flirt with me. The best appointments feel less like following a script and more like two people genuinely enjoying one another's company.
Communication Is Always Welcome
If something feels particularly good, tell me. If you'd like something different, ask. If you've changed your mind about something, communicate that too. Good chemistry depends upon mutual communication, not mind reading.
Boundaries Are Not Negotiable
My boundaries are part of the experience, not an invitation to negotiate. Pressuring, bargaining, repeatedly asking, or attempting to circumvent a boundary will lead to the cessation of the booking without refund. The same courtesy applies to any boundaries or preferences you communicate to me.
Conversation & Conduct
Be Curious, Not Intrusive
I'm happy to talk about myself, my interests, travel, art, food, relationships, culture, and all sorts of wonderfully inappropriate things. There are also parts of my private life that remain private. Please allow me to decide what I share.
Don't Make Assumptions
Don't assume that something you've seen online, experienced with another provider, or read about elsewhere applies to me. Ask me what I enjoy and what I'm comfortable with, and respect it. Every person is different.
Humor Is Welcome
I'm fond of wit, irreverence, flirtation, and a little mischief. Cruelty, disrespect, racism, homophobia, misogyny, or attempts to make me uncomfortable aren't “edgy.” They're simply boring.
Gifts & Generosity
Thoughtful gifts are always appreciated when offered without expectation. If you'd like to bring something, consider something personal, beautiful, delicious, or connected to an interest we've discussed.
Please don't use a gift, tip, or additional payment as leverage for something I've already declined. Generosity is most lovely when it is freely given.
Privacy & Discretion
Your privacy matters to me, and I expect the same courtesy in return. Please do not photograph, record, screenshot, publish, or otherwise document me without my explicit permission. Do not share private communications, identifying information, or details of our time together publicly. What happens between us should remain between us.
Things That Will End a Booking
For the avoidance of ambiguity, I reserve the right to end an appointment if a client:
Becomes aggressive, threatening, or disrespectful
Ignores a clearly stated boundary
Attempts to pressure or coerce me
Arrives intoxicated or otherwise impaired
Attempts to record or photograph me without permission
Engages in discriminatory or abusive behavior
Misrepresents themselves during the booking process
Violates my privacy or attempts to compromise my safety
In these circumstances, no refund or additional time should be expected.
The Golden Rule
The simplest way to approach an appointment with me is this:
Treat me as someone whose time, attention, boundaries, and company you genuinely value.
Come prepared. Be courteous. Communicate clearly. Take care of yourself before you arrive. Bring your curiosity, your sense of humor, and a willingness to be present. I'll take care of the rest.
And Finally…
Etiquette isn't about being perfect. It's about consideration. The clients I remember most fondly aren't necessarily the ones who arrived with the most elaborate plans or the largest gestures. They're the ones who made me feel respected, comfortable, appreciated, and genuinely delighted to spend time with them.
That's the energy I hope to create together.